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Q-Edge BBQ

My team @Q-Edge had our bbq nite at cyberia, cyberjaya. I'm da one who in charge buying all da food for da nite. There are chicken, hotdog, corn, kerang n some desserts like trifle, pudding, fruit salad n chocolate cake. There lots of food smpi xtermakan ktorg. Kengang banget smlm smpi hrni naik sebu perut.mana xnyer asik mkn western je.dh 2 hr xpekena nasi..huhu..i need malay foos please!!!seb baik td after ofis me n wan went to kajang to buy some stuff n smptla singgah jp kedai order nasi goreng tomyam..nyum..nyum..bestnye nasi..bila nk diet ni?tensen seh...xpe smtr Allah bg peluang nk mkn ni bt pela nk diet.bersyukurla ngan rezeki yg Allah bg.Alhamdulillah atas rezekiMu Ya Allah..

btw thanks to all my colleagues for ur cooperation last nite even at da beginning things goes not very smooth but towards da end i think we successfully finish da program together.but after dis mst sedey since some of my colleagues will be here anymore.some will fly to india for a project there.but what to do..dat's what we call life.

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Stop Procrastinating!!

1 good article that I found from website

Procrastination or laziness is a nature of a human, however it is a nature that everyone should avoid for it is one of many modes of satan in keeping the slaves away from their Almighty Creator. Dr. Umar Al-Ashqar, one of the scholars in writes

"Satan has many ways and means to hinder the human from acting early. It is recorded in Sahih al-Bukhari that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said,

"During your sleep, Satan ties three knots at the back of your Decks. He breathes the following into them, 'The night is long so keep on sleeping.' If the person wakes and praises Allah, then one of the knots is unfastened. And if he performs ablution, the second knot is unfastened. When he prays, all of the knots are unfastened. After that he will be energetic and happy in the morning. Otherwise he would get up listless and grouchy."

It is also recorded in Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim that he said,

"When one of you rises from your sleep he should make ablution. He should rinse his nose three times. For Satan stays in the upper part of one's nose during the night."

Al-Bukhari also records that the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked about a man who sleeps until the morning comes, that is, after the time of the dawn prayer. He said,

"That is a man whom Satan has urinated into his two ears."

What we have mentioned is from among the ways that Satan hinders the human from doing some actions. He also whispers into the human a love for laziness, postponing or procrastinating actions and thinking about what a long period of time one has for such and such action or work. Ibn al-Jauzi has written on this topic, stating,

How many of the Jews or Christians have considered in their hearts love for Islam. But Iblees always hinders them. He says to them, "Do not be hasty. Look closer into the matter." And they postpone their conversion until they die as unbelievers. In the same way the one who is disobedient to Allah postpones his repentance. He sets his sights on his desires and he hopes he will repent later. But, as the poet said, "Do not rush to perform the sins you desire and think about the period of repentance beforehand." How many are determined to do something and then they postpone it. Perhaps a scholar is determined to return to his study. Satan says, "Rest for a while." Or a servant is alerted to the prayer at night and he says to him, "You have plenty of time." He will not stop making people love laziness and postponing of actions and he makes the person rely on hopes and dreams.

It is necessary for the energetic person to take matters into his own hand and act upon his energy. The energetic finds the time to do things and does not procrastinate and he turns away from just dreaming. The one who has a real fear of Allah does not feel safe of punishment. The soul never stops in its dispute about evil and facing the good. But it always expects that it will have plenty of time to complete the good. One of the early scholars said, "Beware of procrastinating. It is the greatest of the soldiers of Satan." The serious, non-procrastinating person and the one who rests on his hopes and puts off working are like two who are passing through a city while journeying. The serious, energetic one buys his provisions early and waits for his traveling out of the city. The procrastinator says, "I will wait, as perhaps we will stay here a month," and continues to put off buying his provisions and preparing for his departure, until the last minute wherein he becomes rushed and mistake prone. This is how people are in this world. Some of them are prepared and alert. When the angel of death comes, he is not sorrowful. Others are deceived by thinking they can procrastinate and they will despair when the time to move on comes. It is part of one’s nature to love laziness and dreams but then Iblees comes and builds upon that. This makes it difficult to struggle against him in that matter. But the one who is alert knows that he is in the middle of a battle. He knows that his enemy does not rest. And if it seems that he is resting, it is actually just part of his strategy…
(Ibn al-Jauzi, Talbees Iblees, p. 458)"

The Remedy for Procrastination and Laziness

Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and an Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states

"The perfect remedy for procrastination is to nurture sound faith in the manner of the Salaf As-Salih (pious predecessors). Prior to Islam, they were a people without any sense of human achievement or performance, but once they were exposed to the empowering message of the Qur’an, they became energized and utterly transformed; they shook off their complacency and lethargy, and became peak performers and achievers. Whatever they touched was changed anew through their dynamic faith. The Qur’an spoke thus about their faith,
“Is he - who was once dead and then We revived him (through the message of Islam) and thus We appointed for him a light whereby he walks among people - comparable to one who is steeped in darkness, never able to come out of it?”
(Al-An`am: 122)
The remedy for fighting procrastination, therefore, is to nurture such dynamic faith.

Coming to precise tips based on such a vision that one can readily apply in order to empower oneself and shake off the habit of procrastination, let us state the following:

1) Procrastination is a learned habit; habits are formed by repeated acts. So the best way to fight procrastination is to take immediate steps to do the thing one is postponing. So every time one is tempted to procrastinate, one must do whatever it takes to do just the opposite. It may be hard in the beginning, but by repeating it over and over, one learns to break the habit. This process must continue until one has learned the new habit and thus it becomes a second nature.

2) As you rise in the morning put yourself in a positive mind set by counting the blessings of Allah thus emulating the beautiful example of our beloved Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and praying to Allah to grant you a successful day full of blessings.

3) Try to start your work after Fajr for the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, prayed to Allah, “O Allah, bless my Ummah in their early morning endeavors.”

4) Turn to Allah in supplication and seek His help in fighting sloth, laziness and helplessness through the following prayers (Du`a’s):

(O Allah! I seek refuge in You from sorrow and sadness, and I seek refuge in You from unablness and laziness, and I seek refuge in You from cawordliness and miserliness, and I seek refuge in You from the harshness of debt and the overpower of men.)"

"Ya Allah jauhkan daku dr segala perbuatan yang tidak mendatangkan manfaat"

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salam sume..

dh lm x update hrni ada ms utk lepak2 kt nk cite ek..pe2 jela.. smlm g tmn kwn baek ku bl brg2 hantarn..huhu..pnt jln2 kt nilai 3.seb baik brg2 utk djadikan hntaran duh smlm just bl bahan2 utk djadikan hiasan kt hantaran tu. beli reben, bunga alas par n tah pape lg la..smlm aku rs cm aku plak yg nk nikah..wah telebih suda!!hahaha..aku nk kawen?insyaAllah klu ada jodoh kawen ler..hehe..wah gatal tul x nyer...aku yg dk pikior lebih2 cne nk gubah hantaran, apa lg yg pengantinya tau nk kemas je brg yg bersepah kt ruang tamu...cik kak oi mmg cengitu ler gayanya klu kawen..hehe jangan mare ye wan :P

smlm mmg sehari suntuk bl brg..blk dr nilai igt dh bole stat bt dh tp ada perubahan last kn kuar blk bl brg tmbahan kt warta..kol 11 lbh br smpi umah..penat sehh...pgni br leh kms umah n bsh sume xpe atleast aku dh de xperience bl time aku nnt..xdela kelam kabut sgt..lgpn aku mmg suke mende2 gubahan mmg feveret aku cm xpenah de peluang tuk blaja..maklumla xde sp2 lg antara sedara rapat aku yg kawen..pkck mkck aku kawen pn xde bt hntaran gubahan..just bese2 je..

btw mgu lps aku dpt call dr india..dorg offer aku project kt india..huhu..tawaran yg hebat tp xmo p sana..lame siot setaun..dhla kn p bln dpn dh..klu aku p sane jwbnyer tertangguh lgla perkahwinanku..huhu..lgpn umi aku pn xkasi..mana dia nk lepas ank gadis kesayangan dia ni p lm2..nt windu2la..xmo ry sensorg aku lm reject lg sb boss aku kt 'for those who feel like wanna reject da invitation please see me n we can diskas together' ntah nk diskas..huhu..aku mmg xmo..aku mmg nk quit keje bl dh abh contract nnt..nk kawen n nk futher study ngan hubby...insyaAllah klu dperkenankan Allah permudahkan segala bgku..Amin Ya Mujib

kpd ofismate aku yg terima offer tu congrats..harap korg tabah berada disana..jgn smpi tersangkut ngan org sana dhla ye...hehe

okla smpi disini dl bt kali ini..see ya...

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